I am so nervous about retiring

by Joan
(New York, New york)

My husband (59) and myself (55) plan to retire to Naples, florida next year where we have owned a condo for 15 years so we know the community.

However, we don't have any friends there our age.

Why am i so nervous and anxious? Why can't i look forward to this new phase of life?

I have worked my entire life and we did not have children so i guess my work had a more important place in my life.

Please let me know how you have dealt with this. thanks.

Wendy: My two cents.. after 36 years with one employer, I was REALLY anxious to retire. I worried and thought about it over and over (AND Retirement was my occupation too!)

However, all of a sudden, I KNEW IT WAS RIGHT -- I gave notice and I walked out that door. Guess what? NO REGRETS!

I am happy, content, and totally done with work
(except here on my website).

Now, to be honest, this doesn't happen with everyone. It also doesn't mean I won't fall into a retirement transition depression down the road.

What I think -- You will KNOW when its right.
I heard this over and over for years from retirees, and never quite "got it" until I knew it was right for me.

I pray that happens to you too!

Wendy