He Retired! Oh No! What Now?
I have lived with a somewhat selfish man for almost 14 YEARS --NOW WHAT -he retired!!! and he is BORED often if not on the golf course.
During our 14 years, we have shared a lot of fun experiences but then the challenging ones as well- blended families --- him always being right and me always being wrong and then the silence for days !! ICK !! Can't do this next year and i have explained to him I WILL NOT!
He was in his usual 'perch' position and on the computer all day today --- and either Golf or Rugby on TV ALL DAY --- and wearing the dirty clothes he had on yesterday ! EEE GADS ! -- I am scared !
As i continue to work, i come home tired. I recognize I will have to reinvent my life next year and I am a bit depressed that I see this man not changing . If he is not golfing all week (sometimes 5 days in a row) he is watching golf on TV ! SO i relate to a lot of women on this blog ! and there is no solution other than recognize I will be the one brave enough to do some changing with my LIFE!
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