Husband retired at 52 i knew it was going to be bad
Husband was a fireman for 30 years, they retire after 30 years, he was only 52.
I knew it was going to be bad news for me, left to his own resources he was always prone to doing little. Had I known HOW bad I should have divorced then.
That was 16 years ago, its horrendous. He does nothing, I mean nothing everyday.
He is so bad, memory, apathy, inertia, no interest etc that I told dr and he's had a brain scan, I was convinced he had start of dementia. But no its his personal choice! He said he does what he does nothing because he can!!
I have depression and cannot stand being around him now, laziness is something I deplore. I do absolutely everything.
I am 62 he is 68, I am trying to get a part-time job, anything to take me away from home. Now i go out as much as possible coming home as late as possible just to coffee shops etc.
A person with zero desire to achieve the smallest thing is beyond me.