Lazy husband reply.
by Kathy Davis
Ditto to lazy husband letters. My story is the same basically. But for the majority of his life and now is irresponsibility.
In addition to being the laziest man on earth. I take care of it all. He is 72 in good health. Depressed, always. I get all these answers submitted. I get it.
But, what I don't get is who is gonna take care of things if I just ignore him and do my own thing? There is a fine line between lazy and just being totally irresponsible.
Financial bankruptcy twice did not open his eyes. His mortgage banker initiating foreclosure twice did not bother him. Cat litter job that he agreed to, never got changed. Roof leaks, toilet runs for hours, newspapers never put in trash. This goes on forever.
He is retired army. No job didn't affect him. It just showed me the real man I'm stuck with. He will not change any. I stay angry at him. He says he loves me. I love him. How do I accept him when I know he could do better?
He is intelligent. He goes weekly to a therapist. He sits all day. Extremely negative.
His car never gets maintenance. He just drives it until it dies on the road. Then finds a dealer to finance another at 50% interest.