Lazy retired husband
by Beth from Indiana
My husband retired on May 31 after shoulder surgery and rehab.
We discussed retirement and if he had a " plan". I work part time so I can remain active and socialize because he wants to talk about TV shows 24/7. He does do dishes and laundry but on weekends when I am home he does not help.
His health is already declining as his fathers did when he retired. He tells me to let him know if there is a chore I would like him to do but when I ask him to do something he says "You want me to do everything".
He is in charge of yardwork but I am outside spraying weeds and doing other chores. He does just enough to say he did something.
I have tried conversations with him but he just gets angry. He has a stationary bike and golf equipment but they r gathering dust.
I am out of options. What next?