Not adjusting to Unmotivated Husband
Hello to all-
My husband and I are retired. It's been a real rollercoaster. While it's been nice having time to travel, when we're not, he seems lost.
He waits for me to plan things, and expects me to be his CONSTANT companion. He has little motivation to do anything...no friends, no hobbies, no life.
I have sent him to a therapist, had his only friend try to intervene, and yet, there he sits on his cell phone.
I have projects and a life to live. I can't keep trying to motivate him. Although it makes me sad, I realize that he is making his own choices, and I cannot be his answer.
Why won't he help himself? He could find SOMETHING to do without me.