by Melodie/ keystone heights Florida
I am also in the same boat as many.
My husband has been retired for about 18 years he does nothing but sit, he won't go anywhere, not to movies or Dinner, just is content sitting in front of the tv.
I asked him to please fix the roof on our porch which was leaking. He said tomorrow, the tomorrows went on for two months, it finally got fixed. I had to get it done, anything that needs done, just do it myself, there have been to many tomorrows and they never come.