Still Trying to Cope with Retirement
Cheryl retired at age 64 in 2012.
Hairdresser / School bus driver trainer / I have worked my whole life , sometimes two / three jobs. My life time job has been school bus driver trainer.Why did you retire?
I was not forced out, 37 years of bouncing on my spine told me it was time to go. I chose to retire.When did it REALLY sink in that you were REALLY RETIRED?
Several months after I retired I realized that I was missing the social aspect of life, and the interaction with the public.My Home:
I am still in my home, and have not relocated nor do I plan on moving in the near future.Did you go through a depression when you first retired?
I am still trying to cope, and finding it hard to give up the working field. Are you a normally happy go lucky person?
Yes I have always had a positive attitude and been very happy. Hobbies:
My garden when possible - some crafts - some volunteering.What would make your retirement easier?
Life would be easier if I had some regiment, direction, obligations each day.........meaning that something I had to do the next day would be a lifesaving activity.What is Retirement Satisfaction?
I do feel satisfied that I accomplished major goals in life. I do try to tell my self each day how grateful I am and blessed to have my health. My children have their degrees, what more could a parent ask for?What is your biggest retirement challenge?
Keeping busy, keeping my mind from dying.......Are you mentally and physically active?
I make sure I am mentally and physically active, but there is a void of some kind and I just can not seem to fill it.What's your biggest frustration with retirement?
Idle time, friends are still working, life has changed dramatically for me. If you had a magic wand, what would you wish for today?
To have a part time job, and to be able to be with friends once again.Advice for New Retirees:
Keep active Is there anything else you'd like to Share to tell your Retirement Story?
I know I deserve this Retirement, I just have to learn how to accept it.