Husband won't help
by Tawney Clark
(Bayonne, New Jersey)
I basically took care of my son for many years, and was happy, but since he died in 2012, I have lost my purpose, am home alot disabled, don't go anywhere, my husband still works but will retire soon.
We're both 59, he's been working 26 years. I lost my purpose in life when my son died in 2012 and had to plan his funeral at 22 for him, and not having other children! I feel so lost, so bored, useless, hurt, and don't know what to do now!!!
When my husband is home for a vacation he gets lazy on doing everything, even going to supermarket, which makes me cry now!! Hes so lazy, he ll say oh I'll go tomorrow!!!
I'm hurt, I'm disabled, I'd like to be able to eat and drink!!!! But no, he makes excuses and is too lazy!!!!
I feel real hurt, stuck and very anxious now!!! What do I do????
How do I get him up and push him out the door??? He doesn't want to do anything!!!!!